we gotta go straight for our pain, like going straight for the jugular. don't run from the pain and go for the easy... don't hide it under being "too busy" or full of distractions, seeking attention, using people, organizing the next big thing, the never-ending tasks.
you go for the pain man, because that's where all your wisdom lies. that's where the ability to expand is. it will require hard work, but that's where you will really know yourself even better.
and sometimes, it sucks. it's exhausting... IT'S PAIN.
but guess what's on the other side ... ?? don't look at me! when you're on the other side of it you'll know it for yourself.
don't be afraid of you pain, be afraid of your comforts.